I Love a bit of bluegrass rock, The Black Crowes are new to me but, since my discovery, I’ve had this track on heavy rotation.
I Love a bit of bluegrass rock, The Black Crowes are new to me but, since my discovery, I’ve had this track on heavy rotation.
I know, I know, all I seem to do these days is post about food and trainers but, in my defense, on a micro-level they’re both massive contributors to my remaining sane. I am, like many of my generation, chasing that illusive dream of having it all and by ‘all’ I mean: the all singing, all dancing career that has me telling people ‘I genuinely don’t feel like it’s work, I just love what I do’, that perfectly flawed white knight, the well rounded offspring and then stepping back and being smugly euphoric when I am that rare statistic that can effortlessly juggle it all resulting in the aforementioned smug sense of Zen.
On the other hand, fuck statistics, unrealistic ideals, fighting tooth and nail just to get a foot in the door, only to have it slammed shut resulting in your toenail going black and falling off, kissing frogs convincing yourself they could be ‘the one’ when really they’re just another emotionally disabled warty toad with more game than sense. Some days all I want to do is pop on a pinny, morph into a Stepford Wife who wears Air Force 1′s, spend hours pottering in the kitchen like a kid in a sandpit, listen to music and pretend that cruel and competitive world of ‘trying to have it all’ isn’t clawing at my front door vying for more blood.
Until I figure out the perfect recipe for conventional notions of ‘success’ or denounce it all to go and live a monk-like existence in Tibet, when times get tough and nothing makes sense to me, I will simply seek solace in my kitchen and get very good at baking and, more than likely, get a little chubby as I console myself with cake.
Kicks: Fila F13
Clothes: Dress Miss Selfridge
Event: Running errands, writing and testing out recipes for my ‘Milly Cooks Up‘ Feature on TheWhorington.com
Mood: Productive
My weekly cooking feature, ‘Milly Cooks Up‘ continues over at TheWhorington.com. If you’ve not checked it in a while, above are some of the treats you’ve missed. Fear not, you can still find all my recipes over there so what you waiting for? Today I’ll be posting my latest recipe: Pan Fried Scallops with lemon and Olive Oil! Feedback (good or bad), opinions and suggestions always welcome!
New banger from Delusionists: ‘Digital Connects’ produced by Jon Phonics. If you listen carefully you’ll hear a nice little A&G shout out in the middle. Download their heavy hitting new album here and you guys get a special discount so there’s no excuse, just type in DIGIFAM when you go to make your purchase.


Kicks: MILDILLA Nike Air Max 1 iDs from my iD session
Clothes: Vest American Apparel, Jeans Miss Selfridge, Thong American Apparel, Socks Primark
Happening: Blog research for this very piece and meeting with Kevin Morosky in Covent Garden to talk about future projects
Mood: Casual, summer time vibes
Like the look of the above? Well just so happens my weekly feature ‘Milly Cooks Up’ continues over at thewhorington.com….So come have a butchers!
I’m not sure when my addiction to kicks, sneakers, trainers, Creps, whatever you want to call them, started. What I do know is, no matter the occassion you can guarantee I will be rocking trainers with my outfit. Despite the questioning looks from friends, family and partners, the cries of ‘why don’t you wear some ladylike shoes for once?!’ I have always felt most comfortable and ‘me’ sporting kicks. I do own some great pairs of heels, I even have some skyscraper Stilettos I may add, but I look at trainers with the same lust-filled, adoring eyes most girls coo over a pair of Louboutins or Jimmy Choos. Even at those landmark events like my graduation ball or my 21st birthday, I wore a stylish, almost designer, dress and started off wearing a ‘nice’ (agonisingly painful) pair of heels, making me an intimidating 6ft blonde, but by the middle of the night I’d have swapped into my air max quicker than you could mutter ‘Milly OnAir’. I’m one of those freaks of nature that has unladylike large feet any way, so I often find it hard to get shoes in my size but trainers never presented that problem – even with my disproportionately big feet I can choose trainers carefully that make them look neat and almost, dare I say it, small.
I’m not one of those ‘true’ millitant sneaker heads that queues around the block for hours to get the latest, rarest releases and I can honestly say I’ve owned some incredibly chavvy trainers in my time, the reality is I’m just your ‘middle of the road’ trainer lover. I will say this though, for us ladies that love kicks and rock them with pride, it’s not a simply ‘throw away’ approach to putting together an outfit. I didn’t put on trainers because I ‘couldn’t be bothered’ to make an effort. Au contraire my friends, a lot of thought goes into an outfit and I tend to work from the bottom up carefully choosing trainers that compliment it and don’t make my feet look like two boats which is by no means a small feat (excuse the pun). All of which neatly brings me to the point of this epic post….I noted that a female journalist was starting a blog about Stilettos and documenting herself wearing a different pair everyday (http://www.thestilettodiaries.blog.com) and what made each pair so great etc. My initial reaction was that there wasn’t an equivalent for ladies who are equally passionate about their trainers. So, my idea was to blog 52 weeks of kicks and name it ‘Kicking the Habit‘ as I documented my attempt to give up wearing trainers and become a conventional, socially acceptable ‘lady’. I quickly realised this was never going to happen so, instead, I will be blogging a weekly diary of ones I’m wearing, be it the battered old reliables or the new, shiny boxfresh gems, one’s that have caught my eye and are throwing me into a tailspin or ones I’ve spied and coveted on others. You my lovely readers can then tell me your thoughts, likes and dislikes as we go along.
My name is Milly and even at the age of 31 (well almost 31) I am still addicted to kicks.
My friend, the wonderfully talented Ross Cooper, decided with this in mind we should celebrate the fact by shooting me in a bath a la American Beauty surrounded by my grimy kick collection. Check out his work here: www.extantphotography.co.uk